Brett Cooper — Elon Musk Baby Drama & Fake Trad Wife Accounts Exposed | Episode 8

we need to talk about the conservatives on grinder I don't care I've always said this ha this country is bisexual my favorite story is that you got to cease and assist from Beyonce oh yes I did my hopes for young people is that they take more control of their own narrative in their life I'm not going to let anyone stop me from becoming the best version of myself I know what my ancors my ancestors went through I know what my papa went through I know there's a big ass big ass tree out in your front yard more than likely have Mya little cousin swinging from it a mirror thanks for coming on this show it's all I'm so glad to be here it's very different than my last interview we were just saying mhm but that's what I kind of wanted I wanted to shoot the [ __ ] with you how is your YouTube channel going you're crushing it thank you you're amazing just it's insane we just crossed I think 550,000 subscribers which is just mindblowing to me it's unreal I'm just so just grateful for the support out there and just to be able to share my opinion and it's heard and it's respected and it's very fun and I love the fact that you for people who don't know Mir story you blew up on YouTube first right like back in 2020 for your video like I'm a black gay man this is why I don't fear the police Instagram Instagram Instagram I thought that you made a viral YouTube video too it was all Instagram I did make some YouTube videos but then I just took them down cuz it was just yeah but mainly went viral on Instagram okay reason I thought that it was YouTube and then that you like came back to YouTube but no you were always huge on Instagram that's how I found you yeah through Instagram and then March of 2023 when I posted my my problems with the gay community which and 3 days later it hit 1.5 million views CRA 40K subs and I have not let my foot off the gas sense it's terrifying but I mean it's rewarding it's fun the best thing is like texting you and it'll be you know an ungodly hour of the night or like ungodly you know hour of the morning and you're up editing the video that you shot the night before you literally do everything yourself everything and I have some help that I can like go get but I don't know it's just always ends up me just doing it just late at night what has that process been like diving into something that you like this wasn't a career for you before this you were working in marketing mortgage company yeah yeah completely different and you've had to teach yourself all of this it's been fun cuz at the end of the day I thoroughly enjoy marketing I love the editing I don't mind listening to myself and putting the pieces together because it's so much fun just knowing that I'm having a sort of impact on our world yeah because it is getting a little crazy out there and in terms of sharing my views on various all topics and generational issues but specifically black and gay issues it's rewarding because I know that it's just being received in such a good light I don't know as long as I'm enjoying it I'm always going to have fun with this so like from the editing to the scripting to the just cutting on the camera just talking every little bit of it is just so much fun I love it and I'm so proud of you I do think since you brought up the black and gate community we need to talk we need to talk about the conservatives on grind oh my go this is an insane thing that air tells me about and I was like we finally need to sit down and talk about it so we go to like you know various events conferences whatever amir's favorite thing to do is to don't you like a a burner grinder account or something well like go on grinder and just like look at all the empty profiles of people like trying to hook up with other guys CU these conservative events everyone's gay it's dramatic every I promise you I don't care I've always said this half of this country is bisexual I don't care half everybody is bisexual like I don't know how to put it like no one else has that data other than gay men like gay men know out there there's lots of stets doing things on a down low and you can see that in the apps like you can download any app you can go to any rich neighborhood any conservative Town conservative conference it does not matter you can go on any gay app you're going to see blank profiles of a bunch of husbands out there just having fun on the side which just feeds into this whole you know hypocritical I don't know why I said it that way but the hypocritical nature of so many people in this movement which I feel like is just on full display right now yeah and it's like people are free to do whatever they want in their life and more power to you you have the freedom as a a consenting adult to do whatever you want with your life but it's ridiculous to asout one thing online and then not only to asout it but to shame people for something and then you're doing it on the down low that's the biggest frustration from I've always said that trans women yeah trans women have more balls than conservative men yeah because at least trans women like you they're trans women they you know how they feel you know what they want you know what they're doing conservative men you have no idea what they're doing how they really feel their inner thoughts like it's all just a big mystery and that's what like it goes into the gay topic of you know more people are identifying as gay and I do think that sometimes gay can be kind of like a social contagion and it's being spread but for my especially for girls yeah especially for girls like from my perspective it's just you're also seeing the decline of men cheating on their wives with other men you're also seeing a decline of people just living their life in the closet I think it is just a mix of like some people are like just doing it for clout MH I think a lot of the issue why a lot of people are becoming more gay because they're just fine to be gay yeah more people are just okay just admitting that but at least not on the conservative side because again all these blank profiles and everybody out there just doing it it is insane yeah it's the saying one thing and doing another did you see the whole patriarchy Hannah Scandal onx no okay so this is like not the same thing but sort of is so there's this woman and she went by patriarchy Hannah on X and she was a non account a non and she was like super tra had this husband Tony it was crazy so like I was going through her account and I was like how do people believe that this is real first of all because she would always po about how her husband was this contractor and they had bought an abandoned town somewhere in the middle of the country and they had named it Tony town because her husband's name is Tony so they would joke about Tony town and Tony had this like tiny little Twitter account but this woman patriarch Hanah was allegedly 307 7 years old with 14 kids that she had adopted homeschooled all of them being a good sub just wait just wait like submitting to her husband Tony living in Tony town where they had like moved their whole family she also said that she had been sex trafficked as a child had like survived lupus I think all of this stuff so that's why they had adopted these 14 kids so she would post about this all the time she would be in Twitter spaces at like 3:00 a.m.

and there were a few people who called out like this is kind of odd like you have 14 kids and you have time to be on a Twitter space at like 3:00 a.m. bit odd yeah somebody has time but he's he's not spending time with any of his kids this lady is like pretending like she's being some like homeschool mom so all of this is happening meanwhile she's shaming other women for not being as tra as her and not just this was not an account that would just post things like this is what I believe you know traditional marriage is cuz there are those accounts I follow some of those and like you know they're frolicking in the fields and their sundresses sourdough whatever the tri aesthetic that's fine this woman would literally be in people's replies and quote tweeting them kind of like Pearl esque but on the other side of the aisle of like literally attacking women and shaming them and saying like you're not Christian enough you're not biblical enough you're like I'm just you're my husband must be disgusted if all of this stuff and it created this whole like veil of shame but she had also created this entire Community she had a Discord women would DM her and they would like become friends and because she had said that she had been sex trafficked all of this stuff they would like so dystopia they would open up to her all of this stuff she never shared a real photo of herself and she always she would give people her phone number but she would never get on FaceTime and some people would be like guys again like I was saying like this is kind of weird like why like this doesn't add up and everybody else in the TRD Community would be like oh you like you're you know jealous of her because she has it all together anyway finally came crashing down this guy named Ryan Duff or Duffy I believe on X did a whole expose on Valentine's Day exposing her she has no kids she's not married to Tony fraud she lives with her parents the photos that she posted of their home was various different pictures from different Zillow listings the one photo that she did show somebody was from another woman's Facebook page she lives with her parents and apparently has done different forms of like porn and so she and she was like collecting like memberships from people and like giving all of this advice and so the entire like Trad community on right-wing Twitter which just feels so dystopian of me to be like even saying that like this Niche community on right-wing Twitter broke apart like all hell broke loose because they were like how could How could somebody be saying one thing and doing the other that's actually insane yes and it speaks to so much more like you were saying the hypocrisy of so many people especially not like cater to the right but a lot of people on the right who you know say one thing online but do another thing on the side it's everywhere we it's OB like it's on the left as well the left is hypocritical ination we talked about that and I think in attacking the left and calling out the left we probably have ignored some of that on our own side yeah and so I think there's kind of a Reckoning with that which is the same thing with like the Ashley stclair Elon pregnancy which is a whole can of worms in a lot of different topics but people were very quick to like pull up her old tweets where she was saying I want to just have like a husband and two kids and live on a farm and like talking about single motherhood and all this stuff and shaming people for like you know having babies in broken homes and this that and the third and it's like unfortunate and I feel for her because I think she's probably locked in some like insane deal with him and she's dealing with like postpartum hormones and I'm sure that she felt like stuck so she did what she had to do but it's also like you sort of didn't you know what you were she wanted this she tweeted out talking about how oh my God yes that she with um Greg price she tweeted at Greg price saying like I need elon's info so I could have his baby or something like that yes and then he was like oh well he already has like a woman and kids and she's like well she hop she was like well he hopped through women anyways so you knew what you were getting into it's like I want to feel bad but then I can't like you're a grown woman you knew what you were getting into you've been it's apparent you've been plotting this for years maybe it didn't turn out how she wanted maybe she wanted to like get married get the bag and have the kid at home yeah I don't know why you would think that with a man with 14 children and four baby M I don't I don't I don't know um I was telling you before how Elon is literally the quintessential uh African-American dad he's like my father never came back with the milk and he's just gone he's gone for moment children's life it's so unfortunate and the other thing is like if you read the second New York Post article which first of all everybody was saying like go ahead go ahead I know I know I want this privacy I am not trying to shame this woman I'm really not I'm not trying to be Shady I'm not trying to like be mean but like you can't sit here and say you want all this privacy but then like you're doing like pieces with New York Post it doesn't make sense that's why a lot of people were shaming her at the get-go from that first post and I was I didn't feel that way at all I was like hey if you know people are hounding her and she wants to get it out there sure there's a lot of pressure especially with this guy who's like so wealthy and so powerful and is apparently like not returning any calls doing whatever like what's going on when it took a turn for me was when her PR person made a statement from his personal account oh did you see that no like in the same like canva layout made of us from his personal account this is GTO it's fitting African-American family this is this is it just like it got so weird and then immediately the New York Post thing came out and then there was a second New York Post one where she's like she feels jilted for him not responding I'm like like just make the post and just shut it down and walk away walk away that's the like also with like apologies like don't apologize for anything like put out what you believe say what you want say with your chest and then just like walk away no apologies put out what you want say with your chest or like just don't say anything at all like Beyonce she doesn't say she doesn't say anything do we need to talk about Beyonce how many country Beyonce tours country don't start it is it's country enough to that I have't listened to it as much as the other albums okay how many shows am I going to this year yeah or is that what you about the cowboy boots you were texting about yeah are you going to wear the like daisy duke shorts or you oh yeah ass was traps you know the deal no not really just my boots in black jeans and a black shirt how many did you go to last year like seven six six six shows okay for people who don't know you're obsessed with Beyonce could you give me your brief thesis for why you love Beyonce Why I Love Beyonce is merely just because I grew up listening to her music M and that's it I just grew up listen to her music there's vide tapes of me I have to find it for you I'm like 3 years old my mom's like who's your wife and I'm like beon like it's just been a whole life thing and like she has different songs that just mean so many different things and I can listen to some songs just break down crying like you've seen I just start crying listening to a song it's incredible I think at some point you should have a full compilation of like baby Amir and then like you in the pit at all of her concerts like working doing backflips and then sobbing yeah I do do that too you do it's like a spectrum of and breakdowns and dancing just my favorite artist cuz literally you go in my car it's 90 I say 95% techno in EDM and then 5% just straight Beyonce and that's it yeah I'm going have the tattoo yeah you have your lemonade tattoo the best album my favorite stor is that you got a cease and assist from Beyonce o yes I did from Beyonce and Coachella because that's so impressive long story short ran this like fan page website and we would take her live audio performances and like recreate them and make them into live albums cuz she wasn't doing it and somebody had to it was going fine obviously it was going fine but then we beat her to the punch with homecoming the album that's on Spotify right now and yeah we made it a year before and we got H to see assist like hey sees all operations like I appreciate you being a fan M but like this needs to stop and so we stopped it and then a year later she came out with the identical album which but when you got that letter like does she know who I am yes I was like okay was Miss Carter when did she call you out at the concert last summer that was Louisville yeah stoping stopping all my friends they've been on like 50 60 plus shows yeah so yeah it's my favorite artist I just love her so much I love it it's like the best part of the Amir lore that in Jamal I know you haven't brought Jamal out today I thought you would with the Elon thing I Jamal's going to come out at some point I know well going back to Elon thing and the fatherlessness the other thing it's that stuck out about the Ashley Sinclair was that while she was pregnant and this makes me feel for her but also I'm like you if you were because I think they were actually in a relationship I don't think this was an ibf like I think there was based on dating and together and based on the like one of five New York Post articles that you know came out that I read they like met through Babylon B the night they met he had like slid into her DMS they were talking look at that face I'm just like ew he's old no offense to anybody who's in their s but like sliding into a exactly somebody yeah 25-year-old DM 24 at the time I age yes but I mean have you seen what is his name is my husband here Alex bill belchic is that his name bellich that is the former coach of the Patriots boom God I know sports sports that's like the famous like Tom Brady era coach have you seen he's like 70 years old have you seen his girlfriend no do I want to yes it's like a former I think like NFL cheerleader or something something like that she get in the bag I ain't mad at it I know so again it's like it's weird thinking about but also people go for it this is like a tale's oldest time yeah ner play boy all that kind of stuff yeah so do it go after your bag whatever just know what you're getting into and this is not a man that is going to prioritize a nuclear family he's never said that is something he prioritized he wants to sew his seeds so crops that's why I can't feel bad because like how at least maybe with the the bill his name Bill I'm pulling up a picture don't worry the bill dude I don't know his back story but maybe that is what he wanted whereas with oh my gosh yes sir and she bad I know she's like I got that check done anyway and maybe with Bill probably clear that that's what he wanted yeah but Elon is so public facing it was clear that you weren't going to get a stable man no he's trying to repopulate Mars obviously I cannot feel bad yeah even you thought it was going to be a relationship and like why would you and trust this like there was a whole his first divorc which by the way he married a woman Justine winter she still goes by musk so Justine musk they have five kids together one I believe passed away at like two weeks old which I think really fractured their relationship which is really tragic story but they were like college lovers that was a weird way to say that but like they fell in love with in college got married they had a very very public divorce she wrote an entire oped about their divorce and like apparently the famous line is that she was like crying or something and she was like I'm your wife I'm not your employee and he said if you were my employee I would fire you and they got a divorce so that's one part of it and then Grimes which like Grimes they got married I think they got married or they were engaged or something there was some more commitment the most stable that that he had yes or at least like going into it seemed so at the get-go but throughout Ashley's pregnancy Grimes has been tweeting Elon they've gone through this whole custody bad she's had to deal with the same thing has had to publicly tweet at Elon saying Elon let me see my son this is like not appropriate you're not responding to any calls her mother got involved grimes's mother was tweet yes on Twitter like you think Diana is crazy mother was like I'm in it this blows my mind two months before Ashley gave birth if musk was anybody else I feel like conservatives and the right would be like shaming them nonstop yes non and so that's why the response was to Ashley's post and I understand that it was was very nuanced I'm not going to like comment on something and be like like this is like you knew you were getting into whatever and a child is a blessing regardless and I hope that the child is healthy nothing but for the best but for that child yes and I hope that everything is resolved for her sake and for the child's sake I hope that everything is great I hope that they get the Privacy that the child deserves and that her other CU Ashley has another child with um I think her ex-husband so for both of those children all I want is the best I think that's what most people online want but it was this weird thing where it was like some people it was very clear that they were just saying hey I'm glad you're okay had no idea that you were going through this I hope you had a healthy pregnancy you know hope you're doing well hope the baby's okay congratulations but then there were other people who were basically just like crawling up elon's ass because they didn't want to like they won't criticize him and I think that you can you you should be able to pull out somebody's accomplishments and say Obviously we both Drive Teslas it's like you are an amazing innovator you have changed the course of mankind seriously you are now intimately involved in our political system in a great way in my opinion doge is like the best thing that Trump is doing and has I mean it's like the libertarian dream it's like it's brought everybody together truly and that is that is incredible but you should be able to separate that and be like okay those things are great but also we can criticize him for being like this is not traditional is not healthy wish I wish more people could do that yeah kind of separate not so much the art from the artist but just realize how much good Elon has done like you can be upset to some of the things that he's doing in his personal life sure but it reminds me all the leftists that are just so angry at anyone driving a Tesla doing all these crimes to cyber trucks but it's like at the end of the day you got to credit credit what credit to do is Elon the best person no however when it comes to I don't know um North Carolina having no internet who's going in there giving them all internet it's amazing it's incredible La fires who's going in there and giving all of La free Wi-Fi yeah he's a humanitarian on so many levels and is I think in my opinion is using science the way it should be used I'm not a big fan like the neuralink stuff freak but in terms of using the things he is created that are moving humankind and Technology forward and that he's the first person there he always beats the government he is incredibly incredibly generous with what he offers for free like that's incredible and so I think it's fine it's good to say that but you also because of that you don't need to like excuse his behavior as father or say that it's like fine or those like the you know patriarchy Bros or whatever you want to call them on X who are like this is what a real man does this like doesn't commit to a woman and so a seed I'm like that's is disgusting like it's gasan was gask Khan a good person that screams you're gay that's what that screams when you're over here like oh that's what a real man does leave woman cuz you probably want to be with other men like you're literally is this the new theory is Elon gay o that's a mirror that's going to be my headline I mean giving nights all mostly the kids through IVF but I also I there's probably more considering that okay based on the New York Post article that he wanted his name taken off the birth certificate oh so I think there are other ones I can't with this baby daddy drama baby daddy drama mama baby mama drama I just wish more people just acted sane took care of their own lives took care of their own mental health to care of their families and just progress to a better world instead of profound instead he says he wants to profess a better world and repopulate the Earth but how are you going to do that having 13 kids in all these broken ass Homes yeah and money does not equate to a stable family money does not replace a father you can have you can easily have you know a mom and a dad but not a mother and father in a home yeah we hello we turn out okay yeah we Bond on our our family trauma did you know that up to 80% of women experience hormone imbalance symptoms at some point in their lives including reproductive cycle disruptions metabolism changes bloating and weight gain mood swings acne and hair damage hormone imbalance is one of the most urgent Women's Health crises of our time millions are affected with conditions like PCOS On The Rise disrupting daily life for many women especially among genz and Millennials but not all women realize that the gut microbiome plays a foundational role in hormone regulation and its Downstream effects taking a highquality clinically supported probiotic is a simple effective and affordable option for women 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it probably shouldn't be public but since it is I'm going to fully enjoy it I'm going to enjoy every single second of it every single comment I feel like Wendy Williams which I also want to talk about Wendy Williams I feel like was kind of before my time so for people who don't know she was this like daytime host was like famous for like pop culture but also like family drama it was like crazy te I was watching like Candace is all if you're familiar with like a black rivers that was just like cadd and messy but like super popular yes and her show she always had the craziest things on it and she all like her favorite line was like allegedly there are things on cuz she would say insane stuff that was like not confirmed at all but there are like 10 minute I know there are like 10 minute compilations of her on YouTube allegedly allegedly allegedly allegedly so that's Wy Williams she was put under conservatorship and is locked in a it's not a rehab place it's like a a brain a bgie jail CL yes in New York City she has not left for over 30 days has not seen the sun she had this business manager I think and I don't remember if it was her former one or there was a new person but somebody was making purchases on from her account on her behalf then they were like taking the money and spending everything yes and she also some contacts that my good friend Candice phoned over to me is that cuz she knows everything about all of the celebrity gossip somehow was that Wendy had gone through a divorce it was apparently like very traumatic and she had kind of her life had evolved into drugs and alcoholism and she was doing a lot of Reckless spending so apparently she was spending a lot and then there was some other spending that was not accounted for and Wells Fargo with the help of this new business manager that she had been assigned to said this isn't normal and they including Wells Fargo allegedly put her in this conservative ship because of the way that she was spending her own money that's the part where my little ears cons like conspiracy ears go up I don't know how that is allegedly real I know I know it's real but I don't know how they have the power they have the power that's why so many conservatives have been freaked out for so long rightfully so like Bank of America you know can they power to do something oh my gosh yes remember the truckers in Canada they like shut down the accounts see I get that but like aren't you allowed to go broke so that's why it doesn't make sense exactly so like did she signed something was there a paper whether it just like man yeah the bus manager if something happens to me mentally like you can go ahead and like take care of it like if we're saying so many celebrities like go broke it's like how did this one celebrity not go broke what was signed what was happened what was done and how do they get put in the conservative ship the other thing is that allegedly her son her son is apparently involved in this and she's now called out her son her spending like $100,000 on a boat and for the birthday and part of the Wells Fargo stuff yeah but apparently they were just together cuz Wendy was able to get out and go see her dad's like 94th birthday or something yeah but that was like Pro that was before 30 days ago cuz she said that she hadn't been outside for 30 days but and then the other thing is that I don't know if it was her PR person or like a family member or whatever but they leaked the story that she was in like a come state that she was like mentally not there and that she like Alzheimer something was basically dying and all of these like very unflattering photos of her I do remember the weird photos and her like stumbling and stuff like that yes and so everybody was like oh my gosh when now makes sense what's going on but then she popped up last week doing an interview through her bougie prison she was on the phone with this guy which by the way I would kill to do an interview like this I just think it would be hysterical she's standing up at the window slapping on the window being like I'm in here crying and everything yes and but then the best part of that interview they're like talking about the conservative ship that she wants to get out all of this stuff and then he asks her like random questions about celebrities cuz she hasn't been able to like comment on celebrities in so long and he asks her about JLo and she just basically for like 30 seconds just goes so hard on JLo for all of her awful marriages that sounds like something Wendy was I know it it's great so she's back so she's I listened to that and I was like oh she's all there she's like crazy as usual like Wendy she's a queen of just throwing sh I mean hence allegedly the queen of throwing shade the queen of being messy I used to watch her a little bit CU it always be on like when I come home from school now seeing the conservatorship and stuff all the stuff like that it is concerning cuz one half is like how did that happen other half is like how do I make sure that does happen to me and so yes in so many of those conservatorships it seems like they go in one way and exit another Britney Spears Britney had issues beforehand never really came back from the shaved head no but part of the conservative ship there's a difference between um a Guardianship and a conservatorship I would know this unfortunately due to my family and the fact that I'm involved in a guardianship not mine I am somebody's but with a guardianship you can't make somebody you Force somebody to take meds you can't force them to do you know any kind of medical treatment you are just there to be a support system you can have access to their medical records if they are an adult you're there to basically like provide the safe boundaries that they need like a God parent but like legally yes like make sure they're good they're safe to go like yeah if they need things doctors call you whatever you can advise and you can like push and if you need to like push the state to make things happen you can but you don't have full authority over this individual's life with the conservatorship they can make wheny take drugs they say yes they're like you cannot leave this facility we will medicate you like this with Britney Spears that's why there's this huge conspiracy which feels real to me that she was medicated to the point of like no return the anti psychotics like they will ruin your body it seems like a conspiracy but just go on her Instagram and then there's this whole argument of like should she have been like there's a lot of people especially on the right who are very against Britany getting out of her conservatorship and there were like so many things happen after the fact but it was like was that because she got yes it's is crazy yeah I don't think many people know the effects of anti psychotics I mean it is like the most intense drugs and why would they but it's like the most intense drug that you can take I've watched my brother was tweeting about this recently because a lot of people were talking about ssris you know RFK Jr wants to expose ssris wants to studies on them which I think is very very you know healthy and anti psychotics are like a step up obviously from that huge leap up it's a very difficult thing to watch when somebody Ries on those meds but you know how disastrous they can be like my brother has had like full body paralysis from these meds he has lost the ability to like speak and write and whatever because of the side effects I mean it's like in every single one and not even just that but you add on all those layers of all the side effects and what the drugs can do but like not leaving the house and like being in a jail yeah that alone Co hello yeah Co drove so many people crazy being stuck at home can now compound that with all the drugs you're B and us and it's very rare that you only take antis psychotics usually it is a cocktail of other cocktail 10 to 20 pills and there are no lifestyle changes that was the thing I was talking with Alex about that's the thing thing that frustrates me with the whole anti-depressants etwi it's like you shouldn't be taking that as okay this is what's going to fix me forever you should be doing if you are on that it simp you should be taking those but in conjunction of like changing your lifestyle habits yeah and that should be the medical industry's responsib ability to encourage that and I think that's the main point of what RFK is doing in regards to ssris is like this should not be step one there should be other conversations that happened prior to that about your lifestyle about the things that you're doing it's covering a symptom it's like exactly someone takes Ts for heartburn instead of figuring out what's giving them heartburn yeah I mean you see videos of women after they give birth in hospitals and like the food that they're given which is disgusting and I think about the food you know my brother I don't know if I I think I talked about this recently on live somebody had asked me about re that's my brother M and I was talking about him cuz he had been in the hospital for 3 years straight wow and part of it was like on the tail end of Co and he so we couldn't see him and we didn't have access to him but like thinking about the foods that he ate and like there were no Lifestyle Changes he was in a hospital for 3 years with these incredibly incredibly high-powered drugs with awful side effects and no lifestyle changes and now that he's out it's like and that hospital food does not look most nutritious no well it's not it's like I look at it I'm like we spent three years and nothing changed it was like that was Prime opportunity in a confined and I hate saying that but a confined controlled environment of like this would be a great opportunity to encourage change almost force it in a way because you're there you might as well yeah and it's just a missed opportunity for sure okay talking about insane families though I need to go back to Elon West for a second do you know about his dad no his mother is very cool May musk former model fantast like very supportive of him beautiful seems very supportive of all the baby mamas like Siobhan who's the most recent actually not most recent because of Ashley but like second to last yes like she posts pictures of the kids and may is like Oh So Sweet whatever like my angels whatever so that's cute the dad so he and may get a divorce marries another woman who has a daughter named Jana I believe that's how you pronounce it he gets in a relationship with his former stepdaughter they have two children together Elon must yes who has children with who Elon musk's father has two children with his stepdaughter far from the tree he's a South African politician it make sense when you put it all together like this man was what age did they get married and stuff I actually don't know should I look it up like is this like a whole like this sounds nasty it is like Woody um Woody Allen why can't people just just leave other people alone well they are leaving each other they're keeping in the family what in the 1500s I'm so over this and all these he was 45 and oh oh my gosh wait no this is seem crazier he was 45 he married 25-year-old Heidi raised her daughter Janet from the age of four that's what I was thinking raised it and then in 20 in 2014 reconnected years later oh no and sparked romantic relationship after he helped her quote get over a breakup no this is the case with the FBI yeah Errol musk raised Jana bezout from the age of four you know what it's like don't so now my I mean I think I already had this opinion looky Elon Musk it's like if you're getting asked out by him if he's saying I want to have like apparently he like slides into girls DMS and it's like want to have a kid like want to help me rep want to repopulate you know that you're not getting the king of the nuclear family not an Engaged father scale back even more the evidence is all there what pisses me off is that by all means like you can have your own viewpoints whatever like we treat each other with respect it's fine but there's so many people who find issue with me being a gay male that's literally minding my business with my husband my dog working traveling not bothering anybody and straight people are out here Wilding acting a fool having 13 kids five baby mamas rep ating the Earth creating broken a home it's like why am I the issue I'm not bothering anybody I'm not doing anything to nobody I'm minding my are some gays a problem yes we'll get into that the whole like LG that's why it's not about the sexuality it is about the individual and the insane choices they make across the board we should be able to say this is insane Behavior this is unhealthy this is inappropriate don't do that around kids lot of stet people Behavior but to get on me just for being a gay male is like actually wild when the sheer amount of straits act in up a plum I'm sorry it's just well I feel like you also end up in a unique position and you can talk about this of like you know you are a gay conservative and there are a lot of conservatives who do not you know yeah respect you and your lifestyle choices whatever you're doing even though you are minding your own business doing you doing your husband um sorry but you also don't identify with the lgbtq no Community because they're also insane they're insane and I remember when I came out the closet when I was outed out the closet and after since to conversion therap the whole nine I flew out the closet like I thought I had to be what I was saying what gay was on TV and what I thought it was supposed to be like have to download grinder have to like love all the drag queens and act Super Plan buoyant to set the third when it's okay to just be yourself you know there's so many other gay people out there who don't realize that they can just exist like a straight person you just be yourself and it's fine and it's frustrating now where you were seeing the rise of people just like not caring about gay people and now like the hate is going up because of the TQ plus and it just tacked on to the whole lgbtq plus community and now R being tagged along with like all these like trans kids and drag queens and schools and I have nothing to do with that nothing at all I'm minding my business a lot of gays are a lot of the LGB which is sexuality and then a TQ plus which is identity you're telling me they're separate then separate them why am I being tagged along about this and it is interesting being like having like my viewpoint when of being gay and then like at the end of the day I'm always pissing off somebody like which is why you're so great because you don't care and the other thing that's wonderful about you and your content is regardless of the hate that you get you always approach things and you've been a great influence on me and I think you're always somebody who I like go back to and I like tap into that because you are kind of lodged in the middle of all of this stuff is you approach everything with genuine empathy and looking to understand rather than change Minds yeah that's my biggest thing is I want to make sure I'm meeting people where they're at CU I'm not going to act like I wasn't there I'm not going to act like I wasn't in the streets marching with BLM crying as delusional as that was like I I get it I was thought there crying I thought my life was a danger being a black male my anxiety was an all-time high cuz I really thought I was going to get shot and killed by police and I'm more likely to get struck by lightning than shot by a cop and like in terms of being gay like I always thought that I had to be the stereotype of being gay is sure I may still have my lift and my hands flying my limp is wrist flying everywhere I get it but you don't have to jump into this whole like gay community and I don't care what hate is throw my way I'm always keeping in mind that we are in a better place and there's so many people that act like we're not and it's so frustrating on both ends from the hot button issues in America black and gay on the black side of things it's like I know what my anest my ancestors went through I know what my papa went through I know there's a big ass big ass tree out in your front yard more than likely have Michael little cousin swinging from it let's be real I'm not living in that life right now I'm just I'm genuinely not there's so many bones underneath us of like my answers of out here on this Plantation and to think that I'm going to sit here and bch and moan about how bad America is and how racist it is that's so disrespectful to them when I'm their dream I get paid to talk to a [ __ ] camera they couldn't even speak like that's ludicrous and then on the flip side of being gay my uncle died in the a epidemic in the ' 80s like he went through all that horrible stuff you couldn't even be out and that's why I say yeah being gay is rising but also you I'm not getting killed for being gay and that was a thing back then like that was a thing of like gay people actually marrying lesbians and they were living their separate lives but they're straight couple together yeah know those are coming back I mean we I'm that's like a whole there was this couple that went viral like two months ago and it's this gay man and El lesbian woman and they were like yeah we're getting married and they are they said they're soulmates but they're also attracted to each other I see how I'm making a video now reacting to Michael nolles and being surrounded by the lgbtq and he said that if you are gay maybe you still should get married like no but yeah I'm always just going to keep keep it being real and keep being like with coming from a place of empathy I always once there I get it it's frustrating but it's also frustrating to know the sheer amount of pain and turmoil that people who literally me black and gay went through and act like I'm still going through all that heart and crime is just not happening now you all know that I am a big advocate for our Second Amendment rights and I believe in being prepared and being responsible when it comes to Firearms but let's be honest shooting can be loud it can be sometimes uncomfortable and that is why I want to tell you about my friends over at silencer shop and yes guys silencers are totally legal and silencer shop makes getting one easier than ever they offer the largest selection of top brand suppressors that make make your shooting experience quieter safer and way more enjoyable whether you are hitting the range out hunting a suppressor can make a world of difference and don't worry about the paperwork I know that there's a lot of it they have got you covered silencer shop simplifies the entire process making it hassle-free so that you can get your suppressor from the comfort of your own home I don't have to leave this chair to get my 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because I feel like every generation has their own thing yeah like the goth the emo scene like the Myspace scene like in 20067 now we're seeing like being non-binary and panexual and it's like it's like a a club almost people put on these identities like it's a costume yeah literally well they like a lot of people literally do and it's like you you immediately join you immediately get to be a minority mhm you immediately special yeah it's special I'm part of a club I'm disc but I do wonder if that comes from a place of I just did a whole episode about like genen Z loneliness and Millennials and jenz are especially jenzy are historically isolated historically lonely and every generation has been lonely but it's like with Co with the insurgence of technology and the fact that we were literally raised online it's just very different and all of our social norms were completely disrupt by this like technal it's LG like when people talk LGBT community it's LGB I just said it lgbtq community and people want to join that and be a part of a community because they're so lonely and that's why so many people diving to the non-binary this is the easiest thing to do without doing anything you can be non-binary and still be a straight woman except I have a friend old friend of mine from La who went so far as to get Top surgery left bottom micro do testosterone to physically it's I know and it's like heartbreaking at that point that's where like I do understand like body dysmorphia is real but how common it's becoming is very concerning especially with the of people detransitioning yes and with it being the immediate solution rather than going back to the ssris of like it's the Band-Aid solution but it is a Band-Aid solution you can't come back from it's affirming therapy that's crazy affirming what's the point of therapy to talk through something you're not talking through anything you're guiding me down it's how do you arm like that doesn't that sounds crazy because up until just a couple of years ago this was in the ddsm as a psychological condition something that you would work through obviously because if you are like 20 years ago if somebody came into a therapist office and said I want to cut off my body parts I want to cut off my dingal along and my boobs and whatever that would be like oh my gosh let's handle this and let's figure out what is the root cause here and let's help you because that's not healthy nor is that that you know you know you can't have a fulfilled good healthy life if you're walking through hating yourself and wanting to cut off your body part time these kids are just gay they might be gay but they're also kids going through puberty no one likes puberty that's why the the amount of kids who transition transition the majority of them are girls then when put a puberty Bo puberty I mean I don't know I would assume puberty for girls is way worse yeah than puberty for guys well I'm sure it's like they're bad in different ways but again nobody likes it but for girls I think that there is this like your body is changing some like develop sooner than you like I remember being this like weird uly duckling and I matured faster but I was like a a green bean and I had this awful like bow cut with bangs and I looked so ugly and was so weird but I was like tall and suddenly I was like developing and was everything was so weird I was like I just want to cover up and this is so awful and it's so uncomfortable and I was like sort of getting attention from guys but also not and there were girls that age that were like volumptuous and like engaging their sexuality and everything is confusing especially with the growth of social media and you see these 15E olds that are Mak up made up to the nines grown and not even just like pageant Queens of you know whatever when you kind of do that was a caricature literally look grown are getting boob jobs before they're 18 all of this stuff it's completely destroyed childhood cuz at 15 you were a silly child puberty is supposed to be awkward it is supposed to be uncomfortable it is an awful time and we have taken these kidss who are obviously uncomfortable in their bodies yeah and it's like oh you're trans you can pause it you're fine you can pause it or you whatever that's the sad part is all these kids being taken advantage of rather than holding their hands through it and going you're going through what every other human being on Earth has gone through and I feel bad I feel so bad for all like again like the young gays cuz even for me when I found out I realized that I was gay in fifth grade I was like damn am I supposed to be a girl I knew girls like dudes m like oh maybe I am supposed to be a girl and that to me it's almost like these parents that are transing their kids that's the real homophobia because instead of saying hey maybe you're just gay let's wait till like you're an adult to make some changes you see a flamboyant boy or a boy that's gay like actually like you're a girl just go ahead and completely change you let the kid and they also want to be part of the community yeah in the club in the clout you get paid the celebrities yeah the celebrities who are like oh all my daughter you know I have two trans daughters and all their friends are which celebrity is that they have all the trans kids is that Seline uh oh no um Charlie's Thon is that one no is it Brad Pit's kids that are trans no actually well that is actually a great example okay so Brad Pit Angelina Julie their daughter Shiloh dressed up Major Tom boy dressed up as a boy for years every transition everybody always wondered she reminded me of like myself like she had this like bull cut she would wear like big baggy cargo pants whatever randomly like a year and a half ago maybe she showed up at a Premiere with Angelina in a full dress looking absolutely stunning and they let her grow up they let her grow up they let her grow through it dress how you want like like if that was like take that what was happening put that in today's time frame maybe it would have been trans yeah or like put on puberty blockers but instead just let the child be like just yeah explore through life and boom the person that I was thinking of I don't remember I know who you are thinking of with like where all of their kids are trans but the one that I was thinking of is the redheaded woman from Sex in the City and she has I think like two trans kids and then she was up speaking after Trump was elected she was like I am like these TR you're attacking them whatever like holding on to this microphone crying she was like Wade they're all like yes Dwayne Wade used to be Alex's favorite basketball player and now he's like burning all of his D Wade jerseys there's this family on YouTube think that they might be in the UK and it's this Dad I know I know what you're talking about yeah Dad and the little tiny boy a little weird not even a little weird it's and you've watched it over like four years it's been documented from like the age of I think two yeah obviously cuz the boy had a bigger sister and was just following with the big sister is doing Y which fine whatever you're a little boy and like you have a son and the son has older sister like playing with the heels or getting dressed up whatever it's at home but to put that on Tik Tok yeah make a YouTube Vlogs and and make yourself the center of it that's the weird I mean all of it is weird like putting your kids on like whatever but the dad is like that money yes and loves the attention and you know all of the like thunderous a amazing dad and you're so you're like I wish my father been like you you're so incl whatever and it's like you are literally groomed down the pathway of transitioning instead of just living it's almost like I had to choose between like a non-binary and a train it's like almost choose non-binary okay with all of this stuff going on in the world and you talk about it on your Channel all the time but what are your hopes for young people right now with all of this freaking Insanity my hopes for young people is that they take more control of their own narrative in their life and they don't allow themselves to be led by all means I'm very appreciative of support I'm sure you are too and I'm grateful that people trust me and you know watch my channel come for me for news whatever it may be but that they even fact check me that they're thinking for themselves and that they're not allowing themselves to be led by any mainstream media Corporation institution influencer it doesn't matter I want everybody to think for themselves get the news for themselves and at the end of the day really understand why they feel the way they feel don't regurgitate some talking point because you heard it online don't say I feel this way because Brett thinks this way because air thinks this way feel that way for yourself if it's on par with me sure like that's great I love that or let it be like a launching pad is always what I say like or a touchstone yeah like let it motivate you inspire you but understand and know why you feel or think a certain way cuz for so many years I grew up it drove me to the brink of depression of being just told you're black you have to to act a certain way you're gay you have to act a certain way and that wasn't me and it's still a problem now in today's age of oh you're not black enough so you don't have your black heart and you're a [ __ ] Uncle Tom this that and the third no that matters literally just I just want more people just be themselves and understand that they're allowed to do that spe like whether it doesn't matter your race or uh sexuality but specifically for black people out there gay people out there you don't have to subscribe to The Narrative of oh you have to be a Democrat oh you have to be part of the lgbtq community you can just be you how do you get the confidence to block out a lot of that and block out that pressure and the the noise from people that want to box you in because I know at the end of the day people are going to talk crap about you until the day you die it does not matter where you're at in life people are going to talk crap about you adding to that it's like there's this element of like I don't know when it came to the point of me taking my own life I had to sit there in that moment and really think how am I going to sit here and not be who I want to be not be my authentic self not you know Express My Views just because someone else doesn't want me to when there's clear examples of people out there in life doing exactly what they want to do if someone can be super rich and come crashing down and be super poor if someone super poor can get their life together and become super rich not necessarily that money matters but that just shows me that you really can be anything you want to be in this world and so the confidence just comes from just knowing that it doesn't matter I don't know howse to put it it really does not matter what anyone else thinks about you as long as you're not hurting anybody yeah like causing physical harm to yourself or others or not like and you're staying in your lane and you have tunnel vision you're focusing on your goals and dreams that's what matters the most to me and I'm not going to let anyone stop me from becoming the best version of myself cuz I am the poster child of every statistic of you know a a typical black person like no father poor homeless the whole nine my life could have gone in One Direction if I subscribed to the narratives and didn't believe in myself and didn't push towards my actual dreams and goals but if everybody just did that I also think something that you've done that I think a lot of people can learn from and I hope they see in you kind of touches on what you just said but keeping your head down and focusing on the things that are important to you and your goals that inherently allows you to block out a lot of the noise if you're f focused on your work and what you care about in the world and making yourself a better person and breaking through stereotypes being the person that breaks the patterns in your family which is always been my number one goal like I always thought about like I'm not going to be you know just another like notch in the belt I'm not going to do what my family's done it makes it very easy not to care yeah and reminding to yourself like it's called going through it for a reason like you're going through it you're not stuck there you're going to survive like whatever season you're in is just a season it's temporary and you're life is going to get better you just have to have your mindset on this goal that you have for yourself of being great and pursuing whatever it is that you have in life that you want to pursue but you're not going to be that if you're constantly surrounding yourself around negativity constantly thinking and believing the gaslighting that may be coming your way from various family or friends you have to instill in yourself that trust and that power that you can achieve the things you want to achieve and you have to block out other people in the process like you can't be distracted with other people's minds you can't be distracted what so so's going to think about you it's so sad there's so many people living a broken life because they're not doing the thing they want to do and they're not being vocal about themselves that's why I feel like there's so many midlife crisis I'm not going to have a midlife crisis I'm living my life I'm looking forward to being 45 everyone's like oh your best life is in your 20s that's disgusting like how was your best life in your 20s that are you just setting the rest of your life up for failure no I'm excited for 45 I'm excited for 50 because I know life is still going to be amazing but if you fall down this Rat Race and this trap of caring so much about what other people think you don't want to disappoint your family you don't want to disappoint your friends you're never going to be fulfilled and I don't want that for anyone out there well that's why your content is so great because it's not just about politics and about cultural issues I was actually asked that I was doing something with the New York Times yesterday and she was really honing in on she was like I just feel like you don't like you're political but you're not political I was like because I don't care about the political wins you talk about you know making people better and inspiring them I was like well that's really what it's about me you're so political I'm really not like it's just talking about life and culture and wanting the best everybody out there that's why people respond to you and why you're going to keep growing and you too hello cuz like a lot of people how do we meet that's the most funniest thing to oh yes it's funny that we're ending it we should have started with this so I was alone and sad at UCLA and had no friends because I just told them I wasn't voting for Bernie or Biden and in the primaries I was like I'm actually going the other direction and I had gotten in contact with prer u in Los Angeles and my mom had found you on Instagram and was like this you need to be friends with me OD this is like the greatest guy she loved all your 2019 2020 the beginning of 2020 and you flew out to LA for the premiere of will wit's environmental do documentary you and the reason I went was to meet you insane yeah I L like orange Sun I was like to go meet air have that picture that is so crazy to me yes and yeah we became friends ever since I remember like dming you and being like I really like your work and then yeah we stayed in touch and then dailywire moved me out to Nashville and I knew that you were living in Franklin at the time but I wasn't exactly sure and so I didn't you we went to North Italia and like just seeing the work that you've put in and how hard you worked oh my I can get emotional it's just so crazy I'm just so proud of you like what you've built for yourself what you've done what you've accomplished and how consistent you've been MH throughout all this even back to 20 you're the same damn Brad like super loving super kind super sweet and if anything you're just so much stronger and resilient and just I'm just proud of you that's the well that means so much coming from you and I would say the same to you on an even bigger level because you've literally done it by yourself from day one which is just so impressive we going to keep growing but I was going to say I think that one thing that is a unique value to what we do is that at least in my perspective I feel like I make myself better every single time I get behind the camera and talk about a new story because it's like I'm not going to sit here and be so hypocritical and like tell people oh I think this is how you should live your life if I'm not evaluating that on a daily basis it's like the stories that both of us cover in the research we do it makes me smarter makes me more interested about the world it's my fa thing it's so much fun about this it's like I'm I feel like I'm a much better person than I was three years ago a Beyonce lyric cuz it relates to everything she has a song called bigger she has a song called bigger in the song she like talking about like I'm not just preaching I'm taking my own advice like I'm going through all of this too and you're so on par every time I turn on that camera every time I make a piece of content my main goal is to leave someone better this is it and in turn I feel better yeah just I'm just cuz you know if you turn off the camera and you are not being 100% you or if you're lying about something I mean you feel like you feel like you feel I know don't that's one of the reasons why it was so important to me to you know make this big career switch because it was like if I'm talking to people constantly about swinging for the fences and taking big risks in their lives and fighting for what you believe in and you know betting on yourself and I'm sitting here and I'm telling young people like take that risk do the thing that scares you it's like like I was looking around me and I was like oh my God I have to like it's my turn now it's cool that the um that you guys hold us accountable in an awesome way it is and I'm so grateful for the support and the love everybody go follow Amir and subscribe to his channel maybe we can get you to 600 oh my go very soon great be great I'm so excited thank you for coming thank you for having me this is so much fun can you do it again this is great we can just start a daytime show we're going to replace Wendy Williams I'm down boom bye guys are we really doing the episode like this I need to self-promote okay Alex told me I don't promote myself enough that sounds like some [ __ ] he'd say I know breed Coopers shop.com if you want our awesome hats and our awesome hoodie it'll make 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