Brett Cooper — Why Selling Your a$ Online Is Not A Good Idea | Episode 16

now we often talk about the motivating factors that lure women into sex work you know the empowerment the attention the millions of dollars that they're promised if they just make an only fans account but I do think that we are missing part of the story especially for a certain generation of women a certain generation of women that might have lost their Allure a long time ago and is trying to get back some of that feeling and I also think we're missing a conversation on who these types of sex workers are actually exploiting we talk about how they're exploited but we need to talk about the other side of that issue and with all of the news about Denise Richards her daughter Sami Sheen their new reality show I think we have to discuss this right now because the Richards Sheen family might just be the most dysfunctional outof touch only fans family in the world and yes I said only fans family now if you are my age and you didn't grow up around Den East Richards if you don't know who she is Denise Richards is an actress and she has a new reality TV show that has been getting ton of press called Denise Richards and her wild things and it's on Bravo TV it has been all over my Tik Tok for you page for the last few weeks Denise Richards was hugely famous in the 90s she used to be married to actor Charlie Sheen and they have three daughters together Denise was not just some regular actress she was a bombshell sex icon of the 9s if you've watched all of the James Bond films you've probably seen her she was a Bond girl she's very well known for the film Starship Trooper she was in Love Actually and she was in the film wild things which is what her new TV show is named after and this new Bravo TV show is not her first stint on reality TV she also did Real Housewives Beverly Hill she also did Denise Richards it's complicated which was just an entire two season reality TV show about her going through her divorce with Charlie Sheen like this woman what I'm tring the picture that I'm trying to paint my friends is that this woman was incredibly famous in the 90s was a bombshell sex icon but is desperately trying to hold on to her Fame and that is going to be something that is very important to remember and the most recent iteration of this is the fact that she has been exploring a new online Venture which would be only fans but the way this all came about the way that she ended up on only fans is anything but normal and the fact that I'm saying that is just crazy because in my mind anybody being on only fans is abnormal but this one in particular is pretty crazy I mean this perfectly embodies the lies the faux empowerment that only fans and modern sex work promises and the exploitation of the men who consume this content now before we dive into this story make sure that you like this video If you enjoyed it and that you're subscribed to our new channel and of course if you want every single episode of the red Cooper show ring that notification Bell and of course I need to remind you that if you are somebody who does not want to hear my incredible ad transitions if you want a subscriber only newsletter and a weekly advice video that is curated by your questions please check out my subscriber only platform Cooper confidential the link is right here and also in the description below now I promised you an abnormal story and an abnormal story you guys are going to get so all of this started with Denise Richards and Charlie Sheen's eldest daughter Sammy who decided to make an only fans in 2022 very shortly like just days after her 18th birthday and in her words this was because she wanted to move out and get her own apartment and working at her local candy shop just wasn't paying the bills take a listen I think what made me start and only fans in the beginning is because I really wanted to get an apartment and I knew that working at the candy shop I was working at wasn't going to cut it so I went to the next back best thing and Main and only fans it opens so many doors for me and I've met really cool people doing it and it's it's been really nice and rewarding being my own boss and making my own hours and um being able to do the things I've always wanted to do I mean imagine being her parents and listening to your daughter say oh yeah you know selling my bare ass online I'm so excited that I get to do the things that I've always wanted to do in what world has a little girl dreamed about doing that well I mean her mother is Denise Richards but all of that aside this should be appalling and I listened to this clip I saw it you know last month and I was like there wasn't another option like she's kind of joking and she's laughing at herself saying you know I went to the next best thing but seriously there wasn't something else like a normal job doing anything you are a nepo baby you could go be an actress you could go direct films that your parents fund there are so many other things you could do to start a business where you make your own hours that is not selling your body online on only fans like in what world is it candy store store or only fans that is insane but guys the craziest part of this story isn't that you joined only fans because the candy store wasn't cutting it it is that 10 days later that same year in June of 2022 her mother Denise also joined only fans now allegedly she did this because Sammy was facing so much backlash for joining only fans which I really don't think was actually happening because people were paying her a lot of money but Denise said that this was happening and that she wanted to join to show solidarity and to support her daughter now take a listen to the rest of this clip that we were just watching I think it's great I always just tell her I wish she waited a little bit because she started it right after I did but yeah it doesn't bother me at all it bothered me that she was getting backlashed for owning her own sexuality and her um being a woman and doing what she wanted to do and that's why I joined it I had I didn't understand it um before and then I quickly learned and I kind of had made a sort of a joke about it I posted something um when she did join when she was people were making comments cuz it's hard cuz she's so young and she was 19 or 18 when she I just turned 18 when I saw she was 18 years old I for me I thought oh my gosh for her at 18 to have people have negative comments about her why is the conversation about the fact that at 18 years old she's having to face negative comments instead of why at 18 years old is she selling her body online like the priorities are just completely out of whack this is like Hollywood at its finest of these people live in a completely different world than most normal Americans oh my daughter's posting pictures of her bare ass and everybody's mad at her maybe you should take her out of that environment rather than putting yourself in it I mean you saw in the interview she's like damn mom wish you had waited it was like 10 days after me the entire thing is so weird but even though Sammy was obviously uncomfortable because what daughter wouldn't be uncomfortable Denise was undeterred and in another interview she said quote I'm a grown ass woman and I've had a lot of stuff over the years said about me the good the bad you know publicly even now as a grown-up it hurts still but eventually her tune changed with the actress joining only fans as well and she said when the wild things came out it was a very positive movie for my career but I'm sure a lot of people had a personal opinion too then after that you're perceived as a sex symbol and the things you do are perceived as sexual she said comparing her 1998 film's popularity to Sam's increased Fame so that is why I wanted to join only fans because I was like who cares so we're kind of hearing two different stories here like number one she's already a sex symbol so who cares she's just going to do it anyway but also she didn't think it was fair that her daughter was getting all of this backlash and detention so she just she had to join to make sure she was supporting her newly 18-year-old daughter I'm sorry this sounds like jealousy more than anything else I think that is why Samy was so uncomfortable which we saw in that clip like oh Mom it's kind of weird again what daughter wouldn't feel that way this feels like a mother a very weird Hollywood mom that is just trying to tap into the fame that she used to have at the beginning of her career that her daughter now has this is a woman that was once known for her sex appeal and her beauty she is now being overshadowed by her 18-year-old daughter and she just had to step in this is so creepy on a million different levels and I know what you guys are probably thinking like Brett where did you even find all this information yes I can even research this story on ground news and based on what ground news showed me this story deserves a lot more coverage than it has received now if you don't know ground news is a company that cuts through the noise with an unbiased perspective and shows both sides of every story prioritizing honesty over everything which is so refreshing in this media landscape their unique technology even allows users to compare how different sides of the corporate media are reporting on a story making sure that you see all sides and truly stay informed and from my perspective as a Creator they make sure that I stay on top of the stories that I'm covering so that I can bring you guys the latest and most honest updates like today the fact that no one is talking about this only fan story there were only four articles on this story and obviously there needs to be a lot more and speaking of that ground news also has their Innovative blind spot feed which brings you the stories that have gotten little to no coverage making sure that you always stay informed instead of letting big Tech or their algorithms decide what you see which happens more than 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it is safe sex work but it is still exploitation you are still selling your body online the platform does not actually protect its creators from trafficking and exploitation we have talked about that at length and they still own part of your content even if you walk away from this industry even if you delete everything try to end your account they still own these incredibly intimate things this intimate content that you have created and put on their site but they dupe everyone I mean they even duped her father Charlie Sheen now at first Charlie Sheen was against this very insane move as any good father would be and he blamed it on the fact that she was living with her mother in an interview he said I do not condone this this was back in 2022 but since I am unable to prevent it I urged her to keep it classy creative and not sacrifice her Integrity she is 18 years old now and living with her mother this did not occur under my roof so he's saying this did not come for me I do not condone this I'm not pushing it this is because I am not involved in her life which I mean could be fodder for an entire episode about the importance of fathers but Denise immediately clapped back and she said Sammy is 18 and this decision was not based on whose house she lives in all I can do as a parent is guide her and trust her judgment but she makes her own choices okay I'm sorry clearly neither of you parents are guiding her as she thought her only options were working at the local candy shop or selling her ass online that is not very good parenting now the other thing that my team pointed out as we've been doing this episode is that in listening to her talk she I don't know if there's a lot going on upstairs so maybe we should be fair maybe those were her two only options but I highly highly believe that that is not the case and what is so crazy to me even though literally every part of the story is crazy is that Charlie and Denise they are still trying to play the part of responsible parents for example in that same sit down interview that we had been watching clips from where they were talking about only fans they talked about something that Denise will not let her daughters do and that involves her movie The Wild Things that this new reality TV show is based off of it is an incredibly sexual movie it has a super famous sex scene that involves Denise Richards and that is a movie and a scene that they will not let their daughters watch because it is just too inappropriate take a listen to this clip I've always been told to never watch wild things not allowed to watch it no yeah know you've always told me not I know yeah the answer is no not to ever see that again even though it's the most talk it's the name of our freaking reality shows yeah you can't watch it um it's okay if there's maybe a PG version then she can I mean she's literally sitting there like rolling her eyes like yeah as if I would let my children watch something that is so inappropriate of course not literally she's an actress she is playing the role of a responsible concerned parent but meanwhile everything that she doing as a mother is just completely hypocritical she's saying sure Sammy you can go sell your body online I could sell my body online as an only fans Creator doing sex scenes in the 90s I can be fully nude on screen but no I only want you to watch the PG version because it's just so inoi I'm sorry you are not convincing anyone that you are some good balanced moral parent I mean you would be better just sitting down and being silent like my guns thanks to silencer shop now I'm sure that you all know that I am a big advocate for our Second Amendment rights I love my guns I believe in being prepared and being responsible when it comes to owning Firearms but let's be honest shooting can be loud and sometimes uncomfortable and that is why I want to tell you about my friends over at silencer shop yes before you ask silencers are totally legal and silencer shop makes 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daughter and jerking off to her and she's making so much money now I canone this decision now this is a great idea I mean it's just truly insane now I condone this decision now it's empowerment and speaking of empowerment Denise similarly pared the same talking point point that they all do it's authenticity and it's empowerment in another interview about this insane situation she said once I learned that this platform is actually really empowering for the creators to be their true authentic self I decided to join it too that's not what the platform is about they can lie to you all the time it is a porn app it is for sex work what are you talking I'm going to be authentic with putting my ass on like but give me a freaking break so again the point that I'm making by giving you all of this backstory showing you all of these videos is that I don't think this was really about protecting her daughter from backlash it was about bolstering her own image she saw that Sammy was making a ton of money that she was getting a ton of followers that she was getting a ton of attention and she wanted that too which I think is the case for a lot of these older actresses who later turned to sex work and yes this is a well-established Trend with actresses who we might call washed up these are people who once held our attention who we once admired and craved maybe even sexualized and they have now been pushed to the sidelines and Denise is only one of them other examples are Jamie ly Sigler from The Sopranos Jamie Foxworth who was a child actress in the 90s actor and drummer Jack Nance this is a male example you know he was facing a failing career he was an alcoholic and he turned to porn for a quick Buck which changed his career forever now the most recent example of this is Boy Meets World actress maitlyn Ward maitlyn actually just made the news last week saying that she is now treated so much better as a poored actress than she ever was as a TV actress is just a normal girl in Hollywood this headline reads boy Meets World Of Love maitlyn Ward feels like people treat me with more respect thanks to her pornography career this is just so absurd like suddenly after years of no work your career was dried up you've gotten no attention people watch shows about her they're talking about her they want her to write a book like I don't know personally if I would call that respect I think that that is you doing something shocking and people are looking which again if we go back to the point is probably what she wanted that is what they all wanted and the way that they rationalize this career move decision is through the LIE of empowerment and authenticity which is exactly what Denise Richards is pedaling this is bodily autonomy it's taking control of my career it's being my own boss I'm actually just like an only fans entrepreneur everything that Sammy said in that first clip but how long does that Allure actually lasts like how long does the high of attention mask the fact that you are selling your body that you are selling the most intimate and private parts of yourself and in some cases physical sex to people that you do not know the you don't care about that don't care about you like how long does it take until all of that wears off and you become disgusted by the people who are literally buying you but genuinely how long does it take until you think maybe all of this should have been saved for somebody who loves me and is willing to commit to me who wants more than just a quick orgasm because that's all they want I mean in thinking about all of this my mind obviously went to Lily Phillips she is the young woman from England who went viral a couple of months ago for sleeping with a 100 men in 24 hours there was a whole documentary that was made about that entire Extravaganza and just like physically seeing the line of men outside of that apartment door who were all lining up together waiting to get laid by the same woman it was disgusting and even more gross and disappointing than that was the lack of healthy protection and support around her nobody was checking for STDs I mean her damn mother is her manager setting all of this up and deep down Lily Phillips and I think a lot of these women know that that's not right I think so how is like feeling so like robotic like by the I think like the 30th you know like when we're getting on a bit I've got like a routine of like how we're going to do this and like it just sometimes you'd like disassociate and be like you know like it's not like normal at all I think that was kind of the hard part is like conversing with them and like like when they'd kind of be like oh like we've only had 2 minutes or 3 minutes and you said five on the message someone say that to you yeah and obviously just makes feel so bad do you think it makes you feel bad because you're not hurting them but you know that you're being used they saw an ad online and they showed up to sleep with you for 5 minutes to be part of this game that disassociating that numbed feeling is because you are being used as a sex toy you are putting your body out there to be exploited and obviously in watching the documentary you see exactly when the Allure wears off for her because at the end of the H hundred men she is not the same girl she was when she started but I do wonder if these women like Lily Phillips like Denise like all of these people if they know why they even feel that glimmer of power from the get-go like before it all falls apart and sure like the money and the attention and the clicks helps but I believe that they feel that power because they know that they have something over men that they are dominating men whether this is something that is intentional or is just in their subconscious these women must know that their empowerment comes at the expense of The Men Who view their content and I hope the men who watch porn understand that as well you are being used only fans porn sex work it is people taking advantage of a vice for their own gain and usually in our modern society with who is consuming porn it is usually women taking advantage of men and yes we can point fingers all day long we will just end up with like the Spider-Man meme of everybody pointing at each other saying you know men wouldn't watch porn if women wouldn't make it like Lily Phillips is in the wrong because she had all of these men come to the apartment and sleep with her you know women wouldn't have to do this work if men would just not watch por I mean it just goes in circles none of it is productive in the slight as we will never get anywhere because I mean both of those things are sort of true I don't know which one is more true but everybody is complicit at the end of the day it is up to each individual to take responsibility and have some damn self-awareness when it comes to their actions and they're obviously have been conversations about banning porn I mean just last week there was a story that was trending about how Canada could win the Teri for against Donald Trump if they would just ban PornHub which is a Canadian company this is a headline from the New York Post Canada has nuclear weapon and trade War banned PornHub in the US which by the way that really isn't a real thing obviously they could do that but that was just a rumor started by one person online and then they created a petition asking Canada to do that to get back at Donald Trump I wouldn't hate it if it was real obviously but just letting you know that that wasn't actually like a substantial thing but I mean already PornHub doesn't exist in many states because they refuse to implement age verification laws but who knows if that would ever happen on a broader scale on a federal level like that might not even rectify the situation and it still doesn't actually address all of us and all of our vices and so in a world where all of your vices are just readily available in front of you whether that is alcohol whether that is drugs or gambling or porn you cannot sit around and go well I can just do it cuz it's in front of me I'll just wait until Daddy government comes and takes it away from me no you cannot wait for that in order to get better or stop it is up to you it's up to you to recognize the cycle of exploitation that you are in and remove yourself it is up to these women to know that they are getting momentary power through the exploitation of their bodies and the physical and mental degreg of men it is also up to men to know that by consuming this content you are numbing yourself to pleasure you are frying your dopamine receptors this is well studied you are potentially harming a future romantic relationship that could change your life and you are also financially contributing to an industry that exploits and even traffics women and children that is the reality of the porn industry and so when you see people like Samy Sheen and like Denise Richards these glitzy women who are saying oh it's all about authenticity and empowerment that is a lie that is a lie that they have been told and that they tell themselves to make them feel better about their actions deep down Samy Sheen knows that there was an option in between the candy shop and only fans deep down Denise Richards knows that she really just wanted attention deep down as a father Charlie Sheen probably knows that what his daughter is doing is disgraceful and wrong I mean there is an incredible amount of self-awareness and restraint that is desperately needed in our society and parents have a responsibility to pass that message on to their children and obviously people like Charlie and Denise have not been doing that and so now it is up to us to change that to change course it is up to us to have the uncomfortable conversations with our peers it is up to us to engage in even more uncomfortable self-reflection because at the end of the day exploitation is exploitation a vice is still a vice no matter how much 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