Candace Owens — What Is a Marriage?

You're a sex therapist? As sex workers were basically sex. I mean, I don't have a counseling degree. I have a master's degree in education. We have an article. You recently kind of went viral. Nick, can you pull up the article? Like, I, New York Post, um, Damn. New York Post. I'm a sex therapist. I sleep with clients to save marriages. Oh my gosh. They went for this person. Did you reacted to this or you saw? I almost did, but I'm here.

You're here now, sir. Can you pull up the article really quick? One more. Uh, sex therapist, Olivia Bentley. Wait, wait. takes a hands-on approach with her clients by sleeping with them. I've saved marriages, the Boise, Idaho native, told Kennedy news calling her her work, life-changing. I get physically involved with the majority of the people I see. I think that's part of the appeal. The veteran sex worker who spent 15 years in the industry claims that women have asked her to demonstrate sex acts on their husbands, while some wives grant their eager hubbies a hall pass to pay Bentley a visit.

Um, Good times. Is that pretty accurate? I mean, so you so you save marriages by having sex with the husband? I think the tabloids went a little crazy. Oh, the whole, you know, but New York Post is known to, yeah, okay. They really, you know, went wild with it. But I do help a lot of couples that come in. One right now is asking me to lend a hand, and he's more of a beta, and she'd like him to be more of an alpha, and she wants me to work with him on being more just outwardly in control and aggressive in the bedroom, things like that.

There's a lot of different psychological needs and reasons why people would want to come and work with professional sex worker. Sure. Candace, it sounded like seemed like maybe you had something... the most outrageous thing I've ever heard. It's so in the realm of like dragons and mythical creatures that it's mythological creatures. It's hard to respond to, the idea that she's saving marriages. Um, it's just, They're...

I'm actually in utter disbelief that she is saving marriages. Here's another example. Sure. So like, and this has been, there's multiple clients that do this, where the wife will not have sex anymore. She went and said, look, you know, during the, when they were courting each other, she was down for sex, she was a sexual person, she was all about it. Then let's fast forward, they're married. We're married now, contract solidified.

don't want to have sex anymore. Ooh, oral sex is gross. Oh, that's demeaning if you're asking me to do that. So you're not saving marriages. You helping people to keep up a farce that they are in a marriage. Because at the very moment that you let someone else into your marriage is no longer a marriage. No. Yeah. And these women, these women turned around and said, I will allow you to see a professional. So they are not in a marriage.

That's why, as soon as some of their spouse are like dying from cancer and this, that, and the other. I'm dying from cancer, I might have sleeps with somebody else. is sort of gone. I don't know, wives, they're the ones that come. hold on just one at a time, please. go. Candace, were you... I just would like to make the point that at the very moment that you loan your spouse out, especially if you're dying of cancer so they can get, you know, get off, you're no longer in a marriage.

So it's just a farce. It's like when you, it's a comical, you're pretending for people that you're in a marriage, that you're in a loving relationship. That's not what a marriage is. So to say that I help marriages. No, you help destroy marriages and they can go out and say that we're still married because what we've done is we've essentially said, you take care of this aspect of the marriage. It's like saying, you raise the kids, you have sex with him.

This isn't a marriage. The whole thing is fake, right? What do you think that they should be? bring you in this. What do you think that they... They should work on their marriage together. The union between a husband and a wife should work on their marriage together to fix it? You don't bring out an outside person to sleep with your husband or your wife? saying, I'm not down for sex. Then she might be down for a divorce.

I don't want to outsource the sex. I want to die from cancer. And she wanted him. And she allowed him to do that because he needed to get off some way. While he was, while she was dying of cancer. One of the last things on her mind was, this is a real life, this is a real life, this is a real life. uh, yeah, this was a real, I asking you. Is that what he told you? Yeah, so his wife is dying of cancer, wanted him to come have sex with you?

Not with me. One of, like, this is, from what I've heard, yes. Somebody told you that, that as a dying wish, my dying wish. So how would you want to go have sex with a prostitute? I saw it on TikTok. I'm just going to call bullshit on that altogether? No, because it does happen dying of cancer. It happens. Going through lowkemia. People will literally bring their guys here. Please bring them on the podcast. I just want to say...

scenario. I never heard in my life. There's a lot of crazy shit. There's been marriage counseling where they can take you through sex therapy where you don't have to sleep with somebody else. If it's about a woman not wanting to have sex anymore. What's the underlying reason? Are hormones messed up? So she's not wanting to be sexually active? Is there not enough foreplay when they're having sex? Like, there's other avenues you can take for sex therapy?

like normal couples, counselors. Yeah, real couples counseling. where you try to solve the problem and you're always it and you don't just source it out to a prostitute. The cancer thing is crazy. Yeah, just the most absurd cancer thing is crazy. But outside of that, I don't think that it's up to any of us, what constitutes a marriage because every relationship is different. So if a husband, okay, but not everyone is religion.

Well, wait, hold on. Is that a cross? It doesn't constitute, like, what do you mean? Okay, really quick. we're talking about religion really quick. Okay, you have a cross necklace, but then your shirt says, made in hell. I'm a little confused. Can you... I'm a little confused. The stone is red, so it matched, you know. Why are you wearing a cross on your neck? color coordinating with your neck? Because I don't see a cross is religious?

Okay. Just like you don't see a marriage as religious. I don't think that America is a meaning, which is why it's like, we're out of stage where people are like, what is a woman? Because they just go, well, we're going to call it a marriage, but we're going to sleep with other people. We're going to bring in prostitutes. We're going to outsource raising the kids where we're never going to have kids. You're calling it a family.

It's not a family, and this is what it is. the words have no meaning, right? I'm wearing the cross. Why? I don't know. I don't think of it as religious. Okay? Well, Jesus Christ died on the cross. You think that. That's what you think. Wait, it's been proven. So why are you wearing the broth? Because I think it's cute. I don't think that the design is cute or better. Wait, wait, wait. grew up graphic. I was religious and I'm not anymore.

I don't have to believe in what you believe. And I can say that if somebody didn't say you had to leave. I asked you a question. why are you wearing the cross? Okay, and you're saying that the religious aspect of marriage is the only thing that matters. It's not because people don't follow what you believe. Okay, I asked you why you're wearing the cross and you said because you thought it was cute. Yeah, I'm glad we got an answer.

She's wearing the cross around her neck because she thinks it's cute. I do. I'm not religious. You also wear like a star of David. It's cute. Like, if it was cute, would you wear it? Well, okay, well, I just mean, like, I'm not because I wonder, like, my guess is that you would think that maybe you wouldn't wear a Star of David because you're like, oh, this is maybe, like, disrespectful to people who are... Are you making the argument?

I mean, no, I'm I'm just very, it's a very good question. I'm just saying... Devil's advocate here. Secular argument. Someone might just say that the cross is just maybe it maybe it's more aesthetically pleasing even for an atheist. I don't know. Sure, but livers are all about, like, having... You were at the armacard. It's, like, wondering if you could, I'm asking, if you wear a Yamaka... I think those are very... Oh, are you talking like...

I mean, I was raised Catholic and that's just like... Would you wear that, I believe, if you thought it was cute? No, I wouldn't wear. I mean, a yamaka is completely different than a cross that's been adapted. You can buy a black necklace anywhere. There's symbols of a... the argument of why it's different basically would come down to like how Catholicism has been practiced versus Judaism in the sense that, like, Catholics did use the cross symbol, tried to emplace like an indigenous populations, tried to spread it as much as possible.

And that's why in modern day, a lot of people think that's like more okay because it was meant to be popularized. It was meant to be a symbol that the masses should look up to and should see in general versus Jewish symbols. Okay. I would argue didn't go through that. I think we're kind of derailing a little bit. You wanted to come and go ahead. Okay, yes. So back to the interesting brothel stories. I wanted to say, uh, we do actually have men coming in with their parents, yeah, this actually happened.

So I had a time where a guy came in with both his parents all the way from England to come to the Mustang ranch because he wanted to lose his virginity. Wait, is this really where we left her? I'm not I'm just not following him. And his parents paid for him to have sex with legal prostitutes. I want your stance on that because what's your stance on that? And if I may. And, wait, can I just say that for me, I enjoyed the experience?

sex workers, not prostitutes. Yeah, actually, she said she said prostitutes. Yeah, it's because they keep, yeah, like, yeah, you said prostitutes a little bit more. Is it a question? Is it like a, is it? Well, she said that at the beginning of the show. Legal prostitute. She said legal prostitute. I don't want to offend anybody as prostituted, like a... old school. on the books. Like, on Nevada's books, but, like, the hipper way to say it is sex worker.

But here's the thing with sex workers. Personally, me, you can call me a legal prostitute. Yeah, I got you. But the thing with the term sex worker is that is such a broad, it includes strippers. It includes women who take lingerie photos who aren't naked. Wait, question. Stuart, is stewardess okay? Because you're a flight attendant, so I'm just curious. It's not the term that we... Would you be offended if someone referred to as a stewardess?

Older, older people do all the time. doesn't doesn't bother you. No. All right. Just want to make sure, since we're... It's not a big deal. Earlier, it was like talked about like how, you know, sleeping or letting your husband or wife sleep with someone else is like irresponsible or it's not a marriage anymore. Like, I'd be kind of curious of what you believe of, responsible marriage is, like, or I understand that you have a religious view on marriage, but when I think about marriage, I think, like, I could see somebody saying they're married, if it's, like, completely romantic, like you're not allowed to do romance with anyone else, like, basically, what does responsible marriage mean to you?

Marriage is not just a contract. Like, it wasn't just like the government came up with a contract, people to get married. You know, the history of marriage. You can't separate that from the church. The problem is people are trying to make things cool and trying to update and make them modern and now people are saying you can have a polygamous marriage and you can bring in other people on the outside of a marriage. What's the point of getting married?

Literally, I'd like to ask the question. If you think that you can, if you want to marry somebody and then outsource the sex, you know, outsource the responsibility, outsource what the labor of love is actually supposed to be about, why not just stay single? So you wouldn't do a threesome with your husband? Absolutely not because he's my husband. You even have to ask that? To get the answer? I mean, there's many couples that want to have threesomes.

And, you know, what happens, ladies are vicarious. jump into those Reddit threads because every single time that marriage ends in divorce. There's so many Reddit threads. No, they don't. And a lot of them have regulars over 5 years. Okay. And there's some that are not divorced. We believe atheists can get married. I think atheists get married because they want a tax break. I don't see the point in an atheist getting married.

Why don't you just live with your partner, okay? Whoever it is that you're dating. You're at the stage you said, I don't know if you live with your boyfriend or whatever it is, why take the next leap? If you're wearing crosses for fun and, you know, I mean, if you're actually asking the question. I mean, because then I would just be pledging the fact that I would want to be with them forever. I mean, you can just be with them forever.

So why what is it that you crave that when you when you want to get married? What's that next step for you? What does it mean? What's the difference between dating and marriage? Because it's a commitment. Is dating not a commitment? It's a commitment, but it's saying it's solidifying it. Okay? Solidifying what? Solidifying a bond between 2 people that love each other. Okay? But what is solidified? If you can then jump into that next commitment, which is the exact same as dating, and you can sleep with other people and you can put topless photos on the internet, what are you getting married for?

Pictures on Instagrams to say you did it? I mean, I'm not sleeping with other people. What's the difference for you between dating and marriage? I just told you, it's a bond between 2 people. You're solidifying that by law. You're literally making it known. I want to be with this person forever. It isn't just a simple breakup. Oh, I can go and do whatever the fuck I want and leave. It's a partnership. It's a bond. It's forever.

But there's no difference between dating and marriage. There is other than the idea in your head that it's a bond because you're saying also. But it's not an idea in my head. on paper. Oh, okay. It's paper. And that was before. But it's not a, but I'm saying it's not a tax break. It's a legal thing. I'm connecting to somebody for the rest of my life. Yeah. Well, I think for people that are that think about marriage and don't think about across as something funzy to wear, it's not a piece of paper.

Um, you know, it is a union between a man and a woman, a sacred union that should be protected from external forces, um, definitely not something that you open up. how I would feel disgusting if my husband ever came to me and said, I want you to sleep with another man or sleep with another woman so that I can fill my sexual fetish. I mean, it's an utter perversion of what it means to be married. And it will lead to divorces.

People that have this perspective. Well, and I'm not saying that if you don't do it, you won't get divorced 100%, but I do want to say that there is probably a reason that a lot of sex workers struggle to find people that want to marry them. Well, can I say a lot of the perversion that comes, if you are not going to be acceptant with your partner, if he comes to you and is like, hey, I really like getting pegged, I want you to peg me and you're like, ew, that's so disgusting.

Like I would never do that. You want me to eat your ass? I would never do that. Well then, okay, what are you going to do? Divorce him? Or what are you gonna do? Realistically, I'm asking you at all. hold on. I really want to, I want to know. What are you gonna do? That's your husband. He's like, hey, babe. I think one of the things about marriage, that's really beautiful, is I know what my husband before we got married.

I think I know who... But things change and maybe he wants to start exploring. He wants to start doing what? So say, so he wants to start exploring and he's like, 0 my gosh, maybe I do want you to like eat, eat my ass. And I kind of, and I kind of want you to peg me. Like, I'm kind of, I kind of want anal penetration from you because you're my wife and you're so beautiful and hot and we're married and we have kids together and I'm, and I'm feeling a little bit kinky and I, with you since we have this special marriage and bond, how would you feel if we could just try this out just this one time, babe?

please I think it would probably indicate to me that my husband was involved in some perverse world, whether it was through pornography, that something else was happening on the side? Because these aren't normal things that people just think of when they wake up. Okay, and really like a strap on dildo. Okay, right. So what's your next move? the ultimatum? He's going to divorce me if I don't... I would think that that individual would probably need therapy and not the kind that you give.

Okay. And but you're going to stay with you. You don't you don't immediately divorce. Okay. Marriage is about working through issues and working through problems. You don't immediately divorce them. And this gets back to what she was saying about if your husband, if suddenly a woman doesn't want to have sex, which would be another huge issue in a relationship, I would hope that my husband wouldn't instantly divorce me, but I would hope that they would take...

Some guys are terrified of that. And some guys don't even feel like they can open up to their wives about that. Sounds like they need therapy. Yeah, I know. You gotta work on your marriage. The thing is, is that they'll come to us talking to us about that. You know what I mean? So it's just like, and I don't know if that's unhealthy. And I think that, you know, the fact that sex workers exist as this, what you believe to be a solution, when in fact that's a detriment, because you're getting in the way of the wife and the husband being able to communicate.

Um, and so I would much rather my husband go, if there was an issue and your wife's not having sex, I'd rather him go talk to a priest, I'd rather him go talk to another male, a male sit down and talk about, Hey, man, you should talk to her about this. I'd rather him know. Let me finish my statement. I'd rather him. what do you mean? Bros talking to each other about things that's a normal? I'd rather if I have an issue in my head, it's pretty normal.

I'd rather go talk to my sisters about things that are going on on marriage. There's a lot of steps you can take before you talk to a prostitute about your marriage. I just, maybe I'm crazy. Maybe I live in such a crazy... Well, I'm saying... I don't know, I turn on a Taylor Swift song, try a little bit in my room. I don't know. There's a lot, I would turn to Taylor Swift before I would go to a prostitute about my marriage.

I know, but you're not a male, so I'm just saying like Men can talk to other... What are you talking about? There's all of these podcasts of men talking, you know, talking to men and being inspirational and talking about porn addiction and talking about the things that are corrupting men's minds. that's out there And those are those are, I would much rather my husband listen to those men and look for guidance, whether it's in the church, whether it's on a podcast, whether it's a spiritual leader, than to turn to a prostitute in a brothel.

I hear you. So there's a lot of steps that you can take from, we're having an issue in our marriage to my husband's at a brothel laying next to a prostitute talking about the issues. Actually, let me just step in really quick. I do think, though, I would like to redirect the conversation because I do think it's probably a very small portion of people who are married are seeking to bring in a prostitute to for the husband.

It just seems like such a small kind of, I don't know, what's up, really quick? Statistically, married men are actually the highest number of clientele for prostitutes. Yes. And that's why I'm saying, please listen for me. I'm literally telling you guys, males come to us and say all this stuff, which is like, they're 1st scared of you guys because how you might react. Two, they feel like they can't be honest and open with you guys.

That's why they result in coming to places. Yeah, just you guys know that statistic doesn't mean that the majority of married men go to prostitute. I didn't say that. No, I know. I just letting her know because she said, like, yes, like it was if it was a debunk. I think what you're saying is that the majority of married men don't turn off. I'm just saying like to prostitutes. So they might be a long married tingent and they might be majority married.

That's what I'm saying. Yeah, I get that.